Star and executive producer of the hit TV show Bar Rescue and New York Times bestselling author of Don’t Bullsh*t Yourself, Jon Taffer reveals the transformational power of conflict, sharing his toolkit for arguing smarter–at home, at work, and in life. Most people try their best to avoid conflict. Bar Rescue host Jon Taffer understands that. Conflict can have negative results. It’s easy to think that the key to a happy workplace or marriage is to avoid conflict. In reality, that’s not the case–the key is to argue smarter. Enter the Toolkit for Getting Conflict Right. Taffer’s approach is focused on deliberate conflict–otherwise known as “conflict with a purpose.” There are selective and strategic ways to have difficult conversations, and when doing so, to stay aware of your objectives rather than escalating tension unnecessarily. As Taffer explains, “The key is to act affirmatively, constructively, and productively.” Eliminating conflict isn’t always the answer; inevitably there will be times when it will arise. Engaging in conflict can be a way to clear the air, and get to the bottom of issues that, once resolved, can strengthen friendships, ease tensions at work, and address problems before they have a chance to bubble over. With easy-to-follow advice that shows how to best engage in constructive discourse to get the results you want, The Power of Conflict provides you with the rules to argue smarter, uphold your values, and keep the conversation real. The step-by-step guide starts with the inception of the conflict and carries through the difficult conversation’s conclusion, arming readers with the skills and confidence to fight for their principles., Star and executive producer of the hit TV show Bar Rescue and New York Times bestselling author of Don’t Bullsh*t Yourself, Jon Taffer reveals the transformational power of conflict, sharing his toolkit for arguing smarter–at home, at work, and in life.Most people try their best to avoid conflict. Bar Rescue host Jon Taffer understands that. Conflict can have negative results. It’s easy to think that the key to a happy workplace or marriage is to avoid conflict. In reality, that’s not the case–the key is to argue smarter. Enter the Toolkit for Getting Conflict Right. Taffer’s approach is focused on deliberate conflict–otherwise known as “conflict with a purpose.” There are selective and strategic ways to have difficult conversations, and when doing so, to stay aware of your objectives rather than escalating tension unnecessarily. As Taffer explains, “The key is to act affirmatively, constructively, and productively.” Eliminating conflict isn’t always the answer; inevitably there will be times when it will arise. Engaging in conflict can be a way to clear the air, and get to the bottom of issues that, once resolved, can strengthen friendships, ease tensions at work, and address problems before they have a chance to bubble over. With easy-to-follow advice that shows how to best engage in constructive discourse to get the results you want, The Power of Conflict provides you with the rules to argue smarter, uphold your values, and keep the conversation real. The step-by-step guide starts with the inception of the conflict and carries through the difficult conversation’s conclusion, arming readers with the skills and confidence to fight for their principles., Tell me, why did we ever stop speaking up? Why did we stop defending and debating our ideals? And when did we become so conflict-avoidant that we can’t even talk about the values that mean everything to us at the dinner table with our own families? We cannot be afraid to speak up for a righteous cause; and if that means coming into conflict with others, so be it. The time has come to give voice to our convictions with class and grace. Whether you are a mother, bar owner, husband, entrepreneur, or manager, you’ll learn to: Choose your own battles, Raise your voice constructively, Gather all the facts-before you argue, Become a good listener, Transform into a conflict champion This book is truly for everyone. It will teach you essential skills in debate, conflict, and constructive engagement through realistic scenarios and effective advice. Argue smarter and learn all there is to know about the power of conflict, eliminating tensions, and participating in difficult conversations. I’ve included many methods of arguing and participating in a conflict that match individual style. My aim is to build up your confidence so that fighting for your principles will always be an option when that moment comes to face down the mob of one or one thousand. Book jacket.